I did try the connection guide but it does not accept the privelege piece of "as SYSDBA"
We need to pass four pieces of information for this:
Data Source=myOracle;User Id=myUsername;Password=myPassword;DBA Privilege=SYSDBA;
I can connect to multiple accounts in the same database with the connection's I've already created so I know that works. It's just the elevated privilege that is the problem.